So what about Sarah Hélène.

 Well here's a news flash .... I saw Dr Russell Ried on November 17th 2004, and he is treating me for Transsexualism. Having had various tests with my GP who is  giving me "shared care" I received my hormone prescription on 8th December, and started taking them on the 9th. I have started a transition diary and there is a link to it down this page ...

 The section doesn't really deal with Transsexualism as such, but general "Transgender" matters ... I do realise now that Transsexuals are different ... because I finally addmit I am Transsexual. Most of this site deals with matters before I had an appointment with Dr Russell Reid, while I tried to find who I was ... so the rest of this is quite old.

(Start of my ramblings 2003)

  Hi ....

 Please bare with me it will take me a while to get my ramblings sorted.

 I'm a 40 something heterosexual transgendered male ...trying to be the girl I should have been born as with the support of my wife of over 22 years.

 I've known what I am (and should have been) since the age of 3 or 4 ....

 TRANSGENDERED is a big word ....  It means a lot of things to a lot of people ....

 I know I'm not alone .... But if you can be lucky to be born transgendered, then I am because unlike most I have the support of a loving wife ....

 Being transgendered is not something you can become ... GOD has made you that way and you've always been that way ... some people just take longer to identify themselves ... and it's not our or your fault.

 I'm transgendered, I'm not "queer", "gay as a male" or "hetro as female" ..... I love my wife always ....!!!!!

 So what does that mean .... Sarah's a lesbian .... yes that may be correct .... to be honest I'm not sure.lgg dinner crop

My Interests .....

 Being the girl you see and more.....

 Silk, Satin & Velvet when femininity matters...
 Earrings (mine are pierced) .... bold, delicate and elegant...
 All things feminine, make up, jewellery,
 Stiletto heels (higher the better, wear 5" for upto 10 hours).

 and when not femme ... I'm a yachtsman ... oh to be a yachtswoman please .. like Ellen ...

Real Life ... Family ...

 In real life I am a professional person working in "the media". I have interests outside of this world, but I am aware that Sarah has been a growing influence in my life .... it seems to happen to TG's in their 40's.

 My wife and kids are my real life of course, they come first for everything. I love my wife very deeply and I am totally monogamous with her, I know of no other couple where the wife is as accepting of her "best friend, husband and lover" as mine in all I want to do.

Friends ...


 I have male and female friends in "drab" life of course who know nothing of Sarah, if they do then they haven't said and must be accepting of me.
 I'm not interested in being pursued and harassed by men or women simply wanting to date, but to be friends with "girls" and when possible their understanding wives ( for my wife) is a great pleasure and desire.

 My friends here are the "girls" and their wives I've met on line via messenger chat through various Yahoo groups I have joined, and at parties both private and "public" that my wife and I have attended ....

So who are Sarah's friends ?

Well I could list about 50 from my friends list on  Yahoo Messenger , but they are all over the world, mainly in UK but also in Australia, Canada, New Zealand , USA, Yugoslavia .. all over the place, one in every village surrounding mine here in Surrey, England.

I would say about 20% have wives that know but are not supportive other than accepting, 10% have wives that do accept and are happy to socialise with others ....

It would be difficult to list my friends by name without offending people in some way, why name her first, I chat more often, etc ...

If one deserves a special mention then it must be Linda Martin. Linda and her wife encouraged my wife and I out to meet them in their own home ..... and we haven't looked back. Linda is amazing, she can look so convincing and so different from her drab self. Her wife is welcoming, friendly and encouraging to those she meets. We have spent many pleasureable evenings with them in their and our homes, and out at venues.

Honesty ... it's a difficult thing to find in the transgendered world ... but I'm trying .....



For Sarah's transition diary click here .....


For more about Sarah out and about in the "real world" click here .....


For more about Sarah out and about in the safe clubs and venues click here .....

For see my favourite pictures of Sarah and my friends out and about at clubs and venues click here .....



To meet some of my friends, click the button below

friends

Some of my friends places, and Icons to emulate .....
Linda Martin
Julie Vickery
Joanne Johnson
Maria Jones
Tanya Jane Richards
Gill Cee
Lindatvtartuk



Some of my favourite places .....

UK Angels - A "tranny site" with suspect moderation ... TS's are not welcome.
Trans-MISSION
Mayflower Club
Beaumont Society
Long Island Staylace Association
Yahoo!


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